Monday, 24 March 2014

HOW TO DRESS UP COMFORTABLY YET STYLISHLY DURING PREGNANCY

HOW TO DRESS UP COMFORTABLY YET STYLISHLY DURING PREGNANCY











One of the most beautiful time in a woman’s life is when she gets pregnant. Most of the women in today’s time are working and even if you are a home maker [which I feel is one of the most demanding job], one feels the need to look good . Why look good ? To feel good from inside , to feel confident and to, to feel like today’s woman and no doubt to get compliments which always give a mental boost and indirectly boost your positive energy and this in turn makes you do your work well and finally all this leads to happiness. Happiness being one of the most important things in life and all the more important when you are carrying a baby, a new life inside you. I remember almost all the people who came to know I was pregnant, first told me to be happy always.

During this period it is very important to feel comfortable, so when selecting your clothing always keep in mind that the fabric of the clothing material should be breathable. Preferable the fabric should be stretchable, at least up to some extent specially  your lower garment pieces like your leggings etc. we also get special maternity wear these days, but some people might find it expensive or limited choice range, so they can buy other alternatives available in the market like stretch chooridaars with Indian wear, soft stretchable tights, leggings ,treggings[a mix of leggings and trousers, great for professional wear] track pants etc. While buying these just keep in mind that they should not be too tight on the stomach. If not many then may be you can invest in one or two pairs of maternity pants or lower garment pieces in dull muted colors [eg. Grey, black,tan,khaki,beige etc] which can go with most of your upper garment pieces like kurtas, shirts, tops etc. These days even internet shopping sites are selling good maternity wear at reasonable rates, just make sure you order for correct size.
Do not invest in expensive clothing during this period unless buying for some special occasion as your size will keep changing fast and you will have to buy clothes every 2 months. Also you will take some time to accept your new size and you will want to look good with this new size and shape so you will feel like buying clothes often. Go for tops , kurtas and shirts which have a bit of flare, pletes from the middle portion which comes on the stomach, this will accommodate your tummy easily. A-line cut and anarkali in Indian wear also works well. Keep the colors bright and pleasant as colors effect our psyhyce and pleasant colors will accommodate your mood swings also. Beautiful multi colored or printed dupattas , stoles and scarves work well in instantly changing your look. Also, as these are free size you can use them with all your changing sizes and even afterwards. Ever if you are wearing a simple, inexpensive top or a kurta these accessories can change the look and make you feel stylish. Also use different types of shrugs and jackets and vests to enhance your look. This is the best time to buy from men’s section! Many of their t-shirts pyjamas or tracks will fit you well. You can wear comfortable denims with a t-shirt and an unbuttoned men’s shirt on it. You can even try your husband’s clothes, the ones which are your favourite!
Most women don’t feel like wearing jewellery as they feel suffocated during this period so you can stick to light weight jewellery if it is necessary to wear. Try to stick to just one piece of jewellery if you don’t feel like wearing all eg a pair of earrings or studs, only a neckpiece or maybe just a bracelet or a watch at times. Always keep in mind that nothing should be too tight to restrict the flow of blood which can in turn cause swelling [eg tight finger rings or toe rings]. Footwear should be very comfortable and heels [including wedges and block heels are a complete no no]. You can also use soft insoles available in market to prevent sweating of feet and for extra added comfort.
Make up if necessary to wear should be mineral or herbal. Try to avoid heavy makeup, let your skin breathe and do not compromise on quality of makeup. Always inquire about the expiry date of make up before buying. If you don’t feel like wearing makeup and still feel it is essential , go for a sunscreen in day time[which is always a must] and moisturiser in evening as a base  [ lacto calamine lotion also acts as a good ultra light base] . Use some lip gloss, kajal, mascara to enhance the look. You can use fresh beetroot juice as a blusher to give natural pink tone to your cheeks . If you are finding difficulty in managing your hair then you can go for shorter hair styles  which can be  managed easily without doing much.

And last but not the least, love yourself and your changing shapes and sizes. Be happy!!.

Wednesday, 18 July 2012

Life Influence-holistic image consulting: Dressing up the Indian way, Indian accessories

Life Influence-holistic image consulting: Dressing up the Indian way, Indian accessories: PAYAL, ANKLETS KAMARBAND,WAISTBAND MAANG TIKA Most Indian women like to dress up the Indian way for marriages , family ...

Life Influence-holistic image consulting: Dressing up the Indian way, Indian accessories

Life Influence-holistic image consulting: Dressing up the Indian way, Indian accessories: PAYAL, ANKLETS KAMARBAND,WAISTBAND MAANG TIKA Most Indian women like to dress up the Indian way for marriages , family ...

Dressing up the Indian way, Indian accessories

PAYAL, ANKLETS
KAMARBAND,WAISTBAND

MAANG TIKA

Most Indian women like to dress up the Indian way for marriages , family functions , religious ceremonies etc. This is the time when we feel like wearing and showing everything which we have in store, which has been lying in our lockers or wardrobes since a long time. It is good to dress up the Indian way for our celebrations keeping in mind the mood , occasion and activity. We all feel tempted to wear almost all or most of the accessories and jewellery which we have, specially if we are attending a marriage. But at times dont you feel unsure of how you are looking, if its too less or too more or if you are looking like a  christmas tree! So control your temptations and select carefully what you want to wear and how you want to look when dressing up the Indian way. Here are a few tips as to how to wear Indian accessories and how to create balance and harmony in your looks......

1. Maang tika- an Indian accessory to be worn in middle of the hair parting, it also touches the forhead a bit. Select maang tika keeping in mind the size of your forehead. If your forhead is small  then avoid or wear a small size maang tika and a very small 'bindi' ( a dot, forehead decoration) or no bindi at all. In case of a large forehead wear a  maang tika and a bindi both of medium size so that it covers some part of the forehead. Women having a large forehead can also wear big size bindi.

2. If you are wearing a big colorful bindi then be careful in choosing your lipstick. Lipstick should be either of same color as bindi or it should be very natural or nude. Also one should keep in mind the shape of ones face while selecting a bindi (eg a round face would look more round on wearing a round bindi, so you can select a long bindi  and vice versa)

3. Again, long earrings will give the illusion of a longer face so if your face is roundish you can wear long earrings and if long then you can wear roundish earrings to balance your face shape.

4. Wear a choker shape necklace only if you have a slim or long neck.  It would be good to wear a single necklace only but if you still want to wear two necklaces then keep distance between them( one can be close to the neck and the other at chest level) .

5.Dont mix silver and gold . If you are wearing silver jewellery then wear everything in silver shade and if you are wearing golden jewellery then stick to the shades of gold. Also keep in mind the shade of embroidery on you garments and keep your jewellery of same shade.

6. Dont leave your hands bare if you are heavily dressed up as they would look too empty, wear bangles to beautify them. If you want to wear a thick 'kada' ( a very thick bangle, kind of bracelet), then wear bangles in one hand and one single kada on the other hand.

7. Dont wear a very thin 'kamarband' (waistband , belly chain) if your waist is on the heavier side , instead wear a broad one. Those who have a slim to medium waist can wear thin to medium waistbands.

8. Anklets look very nice with Indian wear and are shone while walking so it is a good idea to wear them , they also complete the look (dont wear them if your feet are not properly pedicured as they attract attention to the feet).

So next time when you are getting ready the Indian way keep these small things in mind and be confident of the way you look.

Friday, 29 June 2012

Life Influence-holistic image consulting: STYLE

Life Influence-holistic image consulting: STYLE: " Style" is a very commonly used word. She or he is very stylish, he or she has her own style, she /he makes a style statement etc. Somewhe...

STYLE

" Style" is a very commonly used word. She or he is very stylish, he or she has her own style, she /he makes a style statement etc. Somewhere inside most of us want to be stylish, look stylish. But what does style mean....does one need to spend a lot or wear only expensive brands to look stylish? How to look stylish or leave a stylish image on others...These questions often arise in our mind...

'Style is a manner in which you present yourself, or anything for that matter. Style does not necessarily refer to clothing. It could be about speech, life, way of thinking, writing etc. The basic idea behind style is personal, every person is entitled to their own style and no style can ever be the ultimate. The only defining style, often called a style statement, is the one that is admired or adored by the majority. Other than that, style is an absolute individual thing'-  wiki

 If we talk in terms of clothes and accessories, you just need to be creative to create your own style.  As Judith Rasband  (ace image consultant) says 'your image should be authentic, appropriate, attractive and affordable'. So whenever you get ready everyday just ask yourself if you are fulfilling these 4 A's. If you are , you can move ahead  with your day confidently. Here are a few things which you need to see after getting ready or before starting your day.

1. Make sure that you are not creating too many focal points or points of emphasis eg a bright lipstick and a bright eyeshadow , a big neck piece and big earrings too, bright colored lower body garment piece and upper body garment piece as well, too many big or prominent prints , a bright shirt and an equally bright tie etc. If wearing a bright eyeshadow keep the lipstick  minimal and vice versa, if wearing a big neck piece then keep your earrings small or minimal and vice-versa. In this way try to balance and create harmony in whatever you wear. Even if you are an expert in creating unusual combinations , just take care that nothing should be unpleasant to the eye.

2. See to it that your clothes are well ironed and no loose threads , loose buttons etc are hanging.

3.Take care of your body odour,  do not wear too strong perfume, you might be liking  strong  perfume but not everyone, also, some people are allergic to strong smells.

4. Its not just your clothes , even your footwear speaks a lot about you. Your footwear should be clean and well polished, not just from the front but also from the heels.

5. If going out for a meeting or work, see that all your papers your purse or laptop bag is arranged properly so that you are not clumsy in front of your client or boss. For women carry all your essentials in your purse, your makeup touch up, perfume or deodorant, sanitizer, wet tissues, moisturizer, mouth freshener, small mirror etc. Try to carry all these in small packs so that they do not make you purse too heavy which would in turn effect your shoulders.

6. Last but not the least "be yourself"!